Yank living in Australia. 8-1/2 weeks preg with Oz citizen father. I'm on 457. Can I become AU citizen?

Life's not that complex. I didn't really even bother reading through your statement too much because you know what? It doesn't really matter what you do, you can't control everything so just forget about all the BS and do what you feel is right and live with the consequences. Life wasn't meant to be easy and it will never be as you planned! So if you think he is a looser and you want him out of your life then just do it. Your life won't end, neither will your babies. If you wanna stay with him in Aus then that's your choice too. Just stop trying to play out in your head how each scenario will work out and accept that no matter how you got where you are you can't go back, and stop trying to make everything perfect. Do what's best for YOU and if the baby is what's best for you then do what's best for the baby. Forget about him, if he cares about you he will work his way into your life!!!