He has too many secrets?

he works in Iraq as a well paid contractor, they dont fight like soldiers they play poker all day, so no pity please, he had an affair last year which i forgave, but he has a secret bank acct and a secret visa which i have no access to. SHOULD i insist he show me these on the internet or add my name name on them, i can get my own visa, that isn't the point. THE SKANK HE WAS WITH IS IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. thats not the issue right now,